Warning: “I-Got-It-itis” Is Not a Strategy
Thriving on the Brisilient Journey
There’s a quiet kind of pressure high-achieving women carry that’s rarely acknowledged - but often deeply felt.
It whispers:
“You’re the one they count on.”
“You’ve got this. Again.”
“You don’t need help - you’re the helper.”
Before long, you’re swimming in expectations, balancing a full plate, and just hoping no one notices that one eye is twitching.
Welcome to the exclusive (and exhausting) club of women who "seem like they have it all together" while Googling “how to nap with your eyes open.”
The Hidden Cost of Being the Rock
Being the dependable one comes at a cost:
- You hesitate to reach out for support because you don't want to burden anyone.
- You tell yourself others have it worse, so you keep pushing through.
- You wear resilience like armor, but inside, you’re quietly craving connection that doesn’t require you to be the expert, coach, therapist, and chauffeur all at once.
You’re not alone.
And frankly, pretending to “be fine” when your last shred of sanity is held together by dry shampoo and sheer willpower is… not the legacy we’re trying to build.
Insight Check: Smart Women Build Smart Support
Here’s the truth they don’t tell you in leadership books:
The strongest women aren’t the ones doing everything.
They’re the ones who know when to call in reinforcements.
That’s not weakness.
That’s wisdom.
It's strategic.
It’s sustainable.
It’s how you preserve your brilliance instead of burning it like a candle at both ends while trying to look serene.
To quote the ever-wise Eleanor Roosevelt:
“Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you’ll be criticized anyway. You might as well do it with your people beside you.”
You need your people. Not yes-women. Not performative cheerleaders.
A circle of real, brilliant, resilient women who remind you who you are when life tries to make you forget.
👑 Even Queens Need a Court (Yes, You Too)
Not every woman wants the stage, but every woman deserves a seat at a table where her voice is heard and her strength is honored.
Think about it:
Even Ruth - the biblical powerhouse of loyalty and legacy - had Naomi.
Even Clara Barton had a team when she founded the Red Cross.
Even your favorite community leader has a behind-the-scenes tribe helping make the vision real.
You’re allowed to have that too.
You need to have that too.
And if no one's built the circle you crave? That’s exactly why I built Brisilient Society.
This isn’t a networking group.
It’s a lifeline.
It’s your space to:
- Show up as the whole version of yourself
- Be surrounded by other quietly extraordinary women
- Share wisdom, get clarity, and grow with intention (and laughter)
Because sometimes your next breakthrough won’t come from another podcast or productivity tool - it’ll come from a ten-minute Zoom chat with a woman who’s been where you are and still believes in you anyway.
Journal Prompts for the Woman Who Holds So Much
Take a breath. Then take your journal. Ask yourself:
- Where in my life am I pretending to “have it all together” when I really need support?
- What would it feel like to be truly seen and supported by other brilliant women - without needing to perform?
- Who is currently in my “court”? Are they the right people… or just the loudest?
- If I could design a circle of women who truly get me, what values would they embody?
- What am I no longer willing to carry alone?
You deserve answers that serve you - not just survive you.
The Brisilient Invitation
Here’s what I know:
We don’t just need more content. We need more connection.
And the Brisilient Society was built for exactly that.
This is your space to strategize your life with support, laughter, and powerful alignment.
Because yes, you’re strong.
But this next season?
It’s about being supported and strategic. Brave and well-resourced. Brilliant and deeply known.
Founding Member access won’t be open forever.
If you’ve been craving a community that feels like clarity, growth, and that exhale you've needed for way too long…
🔗 Click here to step into the circle. Let’s build what we wish we’d had.